There is strength in the shower! We all love to have a little fun while showering, but it’s worth strategizing on how to use sex toys in the shower before you get wet! And that’s exactly what this post is about. Changing the location of your sex play adds an element of intrigue and adventure. We want to share with you some tips and positions for shower sex play that will help you master shower play.
Sex is inherently pleasurable when you do it with the right person. But variety is the spice of life, am I right? Have you ever tried adding water to the mixture?
If your sex life needs a little change or you just want to get wet, luring your partner into your mini waterfall is a provocative way to get together.
Shower sex can also be an attractive option if you want to have sex during your period without the mess, want to muffle the sound of your moans so your nosy roommate won’t hear you, or you’re just too impatient to wait for your partner.
When done right, it’s common knowledge that shower sex can be hot and intense in every way. However, getting dirty where you clean is potentially more dangerous than Hollywood would have us believe, and it’s not for everyone.
But if the thought of screaming while water rushes over every inch of your partner’s body is too sensual to pass up, you’re not alone. To keep things safe and still spicy, consider the following shower sex toys tips.
Safety Tips
Invest in Non-Slip Accessories
It goes without saying that shower sex has the added potential for slippery action – both solo and in partnership, but especially with a partner. As a precaution, purchase a non-slip mat to make your shower floor less slippery and more grippy. You can also purchase suction cup handles and footrests to make it easier for you to hold yourself in new and awkward positions.
Put away Razors, Bars of Soap and Shampoo
If you knock over bath products in the middle of an event, it can be distracting and potentially dangerous if it causes someone to slip. Not to mention, you might just need some space on that ledge or shelf to strategically place an arm or leg.
Keep Condoms in the Bathroom
You know, to avoid a naked last-minute run to the bedroom that could leave you stretched out, injury is not the best prelude. It’s also wise to put on a condom before you shower to prevent water from getting inside the condom and causing unnecessary chafing or slippage.
Use the Correct Lubricant
Although water is indeed wet, it is not slippery and therefore cannot replace lubrication. You want to use a silicone-based lube in the shower so it won’t wash off as quickly as water-based lube and won’t damage condoms like oil-based lube. Keep lubricant on hand so you can reapply it if necessary. Tip: Never use soap or shampoo as a lubricant! Not unless it sounds like fun to upset the delicate pH balance and cause a vaginal infection.
Positions Worth Trying
Once you’ve prepared your space and taken every possible precaution, how exactly do you approach shower sex? Consider trying the following wet and wild (but practical) positions to get the most out of your sexy shower experience!
Vertical Doggy Style
One person places their palms on the shower wall, leans forward, and bends their knees slightly. This allows another to penetrate from behind using a penis, a toy, or fingers. They’re also perfect for getting your clitoris, perineum, or other tasty parts to fall in love.
Captain Morgan
Facing each other, one partner raises his leg, resting it on the edge of the bathtub or bench. The other partner can then enter from the front with a penis, fingers, or a toy. If you don’t have a bench or ledge, one person can hold the other’s leg. If you have a shower handle you can hold onto, even better. Change this position to, um, go back.
Wet Cowgirl/Boy
One partner sits on the shower or tub floor, and the other sits on his lap facing him to allow penetration. This technique is good if you are afraid of slipping on wet tiles because there is no risk of falling. Just make sure you’re very clean in the shower. Bonus: With the right angle, this can work for anal too.
Chairman
Think reverse cowgirl. One person sits on a shower bench, the edge of the bathtub, or on the floor, and the other sits on his lap (facing away from him) for vaginal or anal penetration. The person sitting can reach and play with their partner’s nipples or genitals, while the person sitting astride can place their hands on their partner’s lap for support.
Vertical Oral
One person stands, and the other kneels in front of him. Always make sure that the giver has a non-slip mat under their knees for comfort and that it is optimally positioned under the shower stream (in other words, so that they don’t get water up their nose or mouthful).
Slippery When Wet
The floor is slippery, and there is soap on it, so things can get complicated once you both get there. But recognizing the danger before you get too hot and heavy can prevent accidents, especially accidents involving EMTs! A non-slip rubber mat in your shower stall will definitely help prevent accidents that may occur as a result of vigorous use of sex toys in the shower!
Keep the water temperature nice and hot because there is nothing less erotic than shivering from the cold while you try to get hot and hot. Turn on the shower and let it run for a few minutes so that your bathroom is hot as soon as you step into it. But be careful! Face down on the floor is not a sex position in the shower! So, if you’re with your partner and lathering each other up is your foreplay, take care to thoroughly wash yourself off before applying lube and getting down to business.
Use Lube in the Shower with Sex Toys
Anyone who has ever tried to take a hot shower knows that water, although slippery, is not a lubricant. Soap, which can irritate the delicate skin of the genitals, is also not suitable. In fact, not using lube can cause your skin to stretch and even tear, so use lube to have some fun in the shower. Always use an organic-based lube that provides superior lubrication naturally.
While you’re having sex in the shower, the most important position is where your lubrication is! Because you’ll have so much fun that you won’t want to leave once you get started! Keep this lube on hand for quick and messy reapplies.
Sex Positions in the Shower with Sex Toys
Take a Ride!
Whether you have a walk-in shower or a shower/tub combination, you have a comfortable place to sit. If not, try squats. With the waterproof sex toys, you can strap the toy on for a hands-free call and go to town.
Soap Shoulder
If you’re with a partner, turn your back to them or ask them to turn their back to you to make it easier for you to insert the sex toy. By bending one leg at the knee (of the receiving partner) and holding it still, the game becomes easier.
Sneaky Sudsi
With the remote control toys, things can get more interesting! Partner play with this secret weapon gets super spicy, especially when one of you is in the shower having sex with your revolutionary sex toy and the other is out, quietly changing the game with a slippery surprise! TIP: Make sure there is a mat on the bathroom floor near the shower. Accidents can happen there too!
The Best Shower Ever
Cold night after a long day. You step into the shower with a box of toys customized to your unique preferences. While you shower, the sex box gets to work, held in place by the hands-free strap. You cleanse yourself while the toy warms up the cold night with its delicious entertainment for one! Sometimes the best shower sex positions are made for one lucky sexy shower nymph!